The Education Paradox – Just Do Something, Damnit

Congrats! Grads?I reconnected with an old friend yesterday, who having graduated in May 2009 to become an interior designer, felt she had two choices: Work at Starbucks or Go to Grad School.

The economy is in shreds, yet the cost of an Education hasn’t diminished – it’s substantially increased. Normally, this would have a reduction effect on the bell-curve of the level of education for a society; that is, bad economies breed more dumb hicks as fewer and fewer people can afford to have access to higher education. Instead, super-thrifty Gen-Y is now starting the Education Revolution – everybody and their friggin’ granny is going to Grad School these days.

The value of an education, that piece of paper you get at the end of two or more years of late night Monster-powered study marathons, used to be that you had better odds of getting a job. That you had more “tangible” experience to connect to an employer’s needs. Well, that sure ain’t true anymore, now is it?

If everyone has a masters degree, then we’re all still sitting at the middle of the bell curve, ain’t we? Pull out your banjos boys and girls, we’ve hit the point in our lives where no matter how much education you have, you’re still a dumb hick. The real value of an education has substantially diminished; yet we’re paying outrageous, skyrocketing prices for the privileged of a piece of paper that says we can toil away for extended periods.

There are only three ways to differentiate yourself from other dumb hicks:

  1. Be In Style (Paris Hilton, anyone?) – this is the most fickle but also longest-lasting, unless you eat babies
  2. Add Value (Lenny, Of Mice and Men) – this is the most subjective and shortest-lasting, unless you can negotiate
  3. Be ridiculously driven towards your goals – this requires the most energy, but lasts as long as you have the energy and resources

You will surely fail if you look at your education as a buffer to the bad economy, as a way to say to employers that you are willing to work hard, or as a way to allay boredom.

Instead, you -must- take full advantage of all four years of undergrad, squeeze the life out of every organization, event, networking possibility – start blogging, make a name for yourself, host your own events, organize massive conferences on your own or with your friends, get known for something like starting up a community-centric marketplace or an energy-saving initiative.

Just do something, damnit!

My friend had a lot more than two choices; but first she has to realize just how awesome she is. Until then, she’ll feel stuck.

I am a dumb hick – the first to admit it; in fact, it makes for great party conversations. As true as that may be, I’ve managed to start my own business, become profitable in 3 months time, pay off all but one of two of my major debts in 6 months, and help organize two of the largestunconferences” in a city that six months ago, had never heard of one. Not just that, but I’ve also become a public speaker, started up a group that teaches social media to the public for charity, and have started to write my own book.

Oh, and I’m going back for my MBA this summer.

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Creativity, Self-Esteem and Broken Eggs

Creativity, broken eggs

These eggs gave up their lives for their love of creativity

How can I create today? This is a question people should ask themselves each day. Yet, most of us look at the day or week ahead and think, wow, there is so much to do, or, oh crap! I’m really not looking forward to fill-in-the-blank.

Did you ever think how much more creativity you could allow into your life if you actually planned the time and looked forward to it? The common fallacy is that creativity just happens and you take it as it comes, but that is not entirely true.

Why? Creativity doesn’t happen by accident. Aside from what Oprah will have you believe about her whimsical “ah-ha” moments, creativity and inspiration are free flowing, and need time and space to evolve.  The true “ah-ha” moments show up because you were present in the moment, ready to actually hear, see, believe or understand what showed up. You made the space.

Just Do It!  Creativity Will Show Up

Creative juices flow more freely when you offer up the time and space. Only you know what turns you on, what drives you to get out of bed each morning.  So if the windshield looks a little foggy and you can’t quite find your creative zone, don’t judge yourself. Just get started doing something, and you will realize it helps you not only feel better, but takes  focus off the voices in your head that find very creative ways to say no.

Creative expression can be anything from getting your hands dirty with a pottery project, to a full out brainstorm about what gets you jazzed in your business or career. The “how”  can  involve doing something meaningful to you that enables you to break out from the norm, and use different muscles or right brain power. That could include doing something more tactile like knitting, wood working or playing guitar to open things up, or going for a really slow walk where you relish each step and think of it as a mini scavenger hunt.

Yes, You DO Have Time

When taking about creativity, this is  inevitably the comment I hear next…I just don’t have time. Well, you do, if you really want it.

Creative moments are priceless, and they really can be just mere moments. Just plan for those moments consistently. So if 15 minutes is all you have, USE it. Step away from digital equipment and break out the paints, yarn, books, journal, business plan, short story draft, photo album — whatever.

And the most important part — don’t be afraid if there are a few “broken eggs”. By that I mean false starts, unfinished projects or crazy-ass things that will never see the light of day.  Its something we all struggle with when we are tapping into our creative reserves as adults. Who cares! Leave judgment at the door, even better, flush it down the toilet.

The important part is that you are taking the time and space to be creative. That will shift so many things in other parts of your life, including your perspective on creativity and how it transforms your life. Then,  next steps and choices for your business or career will be clearer with all the brain clutter out of the way.

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Bitch, please: Insight on Entrepreneurship, Careers and the Working Life

Baby boss

Get crackin!

Looking for insight, trends or a place to vent about being an entrepreneur? Then look no further. As a new contributor to Psychotic Resumes, I am excited to be able to share my almost 10 years of experience as an entrepreneur, warts and all.

I didn’t start out in my career planning to be self-employed, but the more I worked for someone else, I realized it was a box I didn’t want to be trapped in every day. Why should you care? Well, besides the fact I have some interesting stories, I also know what its like on both sides of the fence — working for “the man” and for myself. And I want to share what I have learned with you.

Self Employment vs. Traditional Job

The fact is, there are some people who are cut out to work for someone else, and others who work better on their own. Maybe you are on this site because you are flirting with the idea of going on your own, and looking for guidance.  Perhaps you are just so frustrated with your job, you are willing to try just about anything else.

I can say with confidence that you are going to find something here that will inspire you to act — even if its just making a slight shift in perspective to help make your choices a bit clearer. I look forward to contributing to the entrepreneur section as well as the business life, communications and other fun areas of Psychotic Resumes. So do me a favor! Keep reading, and comment. Often.

And one more thing…make today the day you actually take the time to let yourself think about the type of career you really, truly want and deserve.

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Personal Branding makes you a Liar – The Tiger Woods Story

"Spot The Tech" - Would you hire these guys?Please attempt to only be 30% of who you really are” is the lesson of Social Media Mullet, today’s article from Jessica Miller-Merrell on Brand-Yourself.com.  ”Business in the front and party in the back” is the basic premise, that your social media profiles should consist of 70% business interaction and 30% personal.  She cites Tiger Woods as an example.

Let me ask you a question.  Does the fact that Tiger was aiming for holes that weren’t on the course make him a less-proficient golfer?  If I’m hiring him to speak on marriage, maybe I pause.  If I’m hiring him to play golf (what he does), then that’s not a problem.

In today’s workplace, would you rather be an interchangeable cog, whose only real differentiation from someone else is how much you charge per year?  Or would you rather be the piece so unique and intricate that your misshapen ass barely fits into the machine?

Jessica will be the first to point out that you can be passionate and professional and unique while using social media.  Common sense dictates that unless you’re applying for a job as a dancer, stripper, or porn star, you don’t publish naked pictures online… and let’s assume for the most part that aside from the occasional stupid mistake, most people are “within reason”.

If you’re muting your personality to the point where 70% of your interactions are “strictly business related”, you’re not being the real you, now are you?

What happens if you only present 30% of yourself when you’re 100% douchebag? (bad for the company)  Or 100% pure awesome? (bad for your job search)

Either way you are a liar, you’re ruining the economy and you’re an idiot.  And you’re going to keep being a liar until you’re 100% you – the only you there is.

"I Am Tiger Woods"Tiger is a good example of personal branding gone wrong.  He does what he loves, no qualms about it.  Occasionally, he f*cks up.  Personal Branding made it worse – he couldn’t be professional “Tiger” and honest, truthful “Tiger” at the same time.  He’s still Gandhi on the golf course.  Some day, he’ll remember who he is and that you can’t be sane and two people at once.

Your professional self is your personal self, one in the same, one person, growing over time.

What kind of company would want to hire someone they knew only 30% about?  What kind of company would penalize you for having a complete, unabashed social media presence if you were a wizard at your profession?  Why do we reward people who want to work for a company that only wants 30% of us?

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